Last week, I shared
this Rollie Williams link in praise of Fred Rogers on my FB page: http://www.upworthy.com/the-nicest-man-in-history-had-a-shocking-secret-you-never-knew-about?c=ufb1
The basic point was that Fred Rogers was a great guy and his shocking secret
was that he was a Christian. The author said Mr. Rogers’ message was the
opposite of the “lack of love and
compassion” that characterizes most of Christianity. It praised Rogers for his
caring, generous spirit (my words) and for keeping his faith secret (actually,
he was not at all secret about his faith. See. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eliot-daley/fred-rogers_b_862976.html
While proselytizing was not his ministry – and that could never have happened
on publicly funded TV even if he had wanted to – Mr. Rogers’s religion was
never a secret. He even concluded his acceptance speech for his Emmy, “May God
be with you.”) I take the thrust of Rollie Williams’ post to mean that
secularists should not despise all Christians because, although most of us are
harsh, judgmental jerks, some Christians are ok – so long as they keep their relationship
with Christ a secret.
Feeling my faith
damned by faint praise, I shared the Williams link saying I was left perplexed.
While Rollie Williams’ view of Christians is wrong on the facts, I still want
to know how he came to think this of us. He is clearly a well-intentioned
person trying to be magnanimous and affirming the core values we actually hold.
His objection isn’t to our message, but to us, the messengers. He reminds me of
a seminary classmate who in her younger days rejected Jesus, claiming she
believed instead in Aslan – only later to learn that Aslan was C. S. Lewis’s
fantasy avatar (so to speak) of Jesus. I want to understand how we look to
Rollie Williams and why. I received a number of very good, insightful comments.
I was particularly engaged by three comments taking different perspectives:
Fr. Torey understood
the Mr. Rogers article as reflecting the narcissistic, solipsistic (my words)
culture in which “there is nothing more worship-worthy than one’s opinions.” (He
was not talking about the author of the article but the cultural context). I
agree wholeheartedly with Torey’s view of our culture and the state of religion
in it.
Dave was one of
several voices denying that Christianity is generally “lacking in love and
compassion.” I focus on Dave because of his broad encounter with Christianity.
He has been an Episcopalian, a Presbyterian, a Southern Baptist, and a
“contemporary Evangelical.” Yet he has not found the kind of Christianity
Williams decries in any of the churches where he has worshiped. I mostly concur
with Dave. While I have, on occasion, encountered mean-spirited bigotry in
churches of several stripes, I have encountered more of it in secular settings.
Like, Dave, I have never personally been in a church where love and compassion
were not the overwhelming moral message.
Deacon Scot may, at
first, seem to be at odds with Torey and Dave. But I am going to substantially
agree with him too. Scott lays the blame for the ill-repute of Christians with
the Christians themselves, saying we have portrayed Christ as a fool and God as
a “petty tyrant,” and that if we presented a faith people with half a brain or
half a heart could accept, the churches would be full. I don’t think Dave is
talking about the hate-mongering Westboro Baptist Church or Franklin Graham’s
Islamophobic prejudice. He is a Deacon of a progressive Episcopal Diocese. But
Dave is saying that we mainline Christians have not presented a true account of
our faith, that we have not been outspoken in presenting the God of Love in
contrast to the hateful God of the Left Behind Series brand of Christianity. We
have ceded the name “Christian” to the crazies. I think Scott is right. We,
mainline Christians and moderate Evangelicals, bear our share of responsibility
for the low stock of the gospel in society, and the part about our
portraying God as “a petty tyrant” is
precisely right.
So after giving
credit to these insightful commenters who have sparked my thoughts, here’s my
take on why so many people regard Christians as mean-spirited bigots, when on
the whole we are not.
I. PERSECUTED FOR
RIGHTEOUSNESS SAKE?
Psalm 44: 22; Isaiah
53; 1 Peter 3 & 4; and Matthew 5: 10 all say that righteousness will
subject us to persecution. “Righteousness” does not mean stern faced judgmental
piety. It means “right relationship” with God, the earth, and each other –
right relationship with the past, with the present, with the future, and with
eternity. In a culture drunk on subjectivity and pathologically averse to deep
or committed relationships, especially those rooted in tradition, faith in
transcendent mystery, and inconvenient moral duties, a lot of people are going
to find us problematic. The Wisdom of Solomon Ch. 2 is in point. To the extent
that we assert that there is such a thing as righteousness (a network of right
relationship) and try to adhere to it, we make ourselves unpopular in a culture
that finds righteousness objectionable.
But is that what is
going on? 1 Peter 4:15 reminds us that just because we are Christians, that
does not mean our persecutions are necessarily unjust. Christians can do wrong
and be called to account for it by non-Christians. Which of these two scenarios
is going on? The answer is: both.
There are Christians
who are hate-mongers. Take a look at http://www.godhatesfags.com.
There are also Christians who have stood silent while the hate-mongers act in
our name. Good people, like Rollie Williams, object. So let’s give our critics
that much.
But then there are
times when Christians act righteously and are persecuted for it, sometimes by
other Christians. Christians were beaten and jailed in the Civil Rights
Movement and various peace movements. Those churches, such as the Episcopal
Church, that have defended the rights and dignity of LGBT persons have paid a
huge price. We have been slow and inadequate in our stand for LGBT persons, but
to the extent we have done the right thing, we have paid a price.
But mostly we are
judged, not from the religious right, but from the secularist perspective of
the Williams post. What is going on there? Sometimes it may be innocent
confusion. But I know Christians whose secular friends know good and well that
they are not bigots. Yet the friends are distinctly uncomfortable with their
religion. It is an elephant in the room. It is a disfigurement from which even
our friends avert their eyes.
If asked their view
of Christians, such secularists will say it is our judgmental bigotry, though
they know that is not the case. It is our inconvenient insistence on a
transcendent reality from which arises a moral order, our claim that there is a
network of right relationships in which life flourishes. Some things are true
which is inconvenient for those that are false; some things are right and others
wrong. We may be wrong about truth and we may behave wrongly, but we still
insist that there is Truth, there is Goodness, there is Beauty – which just
makes us Platonists – but we go on to insist that all these transcendent values
are One and that One is personal, which makes us Theists, and so on until we
turn out to claim that God has come to us in Jesus – we are, like it or not –
and many do not – Christians.
I believe this is Fr.
Torey’s point. Some of our persecution is “blessed” and it is our place in a
fragmenting disempowering society of solipsists to be Socratically
inconvenient.
II. DISENGAGEMENT
FROM THE WORLD
But what about the
increasingly large number of people who genuinely, sincerely believe what the
Mr. Rogers article says – that “love and compassion” are the opposite of the
Christian message presumably of hatred and dismissal? Let me tell you a few
very short, super simple stories.
After my
mission trip to Kenya, my luggage needed a new zipper. The young man at the
luggage repair shop asked me what I’d been doing in Africa. I told him about
the Anglican Church’s work to save young women from genital mutilation and
forced marriages and our efforts to fund their education. He said, “Where is
your church? That’s a church I’d go to.”
When I went
to help clean up a community center in Las Vegas on MLK Day, several young
people who were there working on behalf of Starbuck’s or their fraternity,
discovered I was a bishop and said, “Where is your church? If you’re here, we
want to be there.”
I went a
community organizing training in Texas this year. All of us trainees who were
over 50 were church folks. The ones under 30 were not.
But two of
the young adults said, each in their own way, “if I’d known Christians like the
ones here I’d still be in the Church. In fact, I’m going to give it another
try.”
My point: a
lot of people, especially young people, don’t know anything about Christians
except the bigots. Whose fault is that?
James
Davison Hunter, in his book, To Change The World: The irony, Tragedy, and
Possibility of Christianity in the Late Modern World, http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_17?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=hunter+to+change+the+world&sprefix=Hunter+to+change+%2Cstripbooks%2C295
traces the story of how mainline Christianity began to systematically withdraw
from the wider culture in the mid-19th Century. We sold the hospitals,
gave away the colleges, entrusted social services to the state and to secular
non-profit agencies.
Mainline
Christianity withdrew from a challenging world in which righteousness makes
inconvenient demands on us. We withdrew inside the four walls of our churches
and became a spiritual support group to each other. We have progressively made
ourselves largely unknown and utterly irrelevant.
Those
Christians who still live “in the world,” confront the larger culture in
aggressive domineering ways reflective of their belief in an aggressive
domineering God. Hunter analyzes the failures of both the Christian right and
the Christian left to dominate the culture through power politics. Another
example of aggressive domineering confrontation is proselytizing, selling the gospel
like a product, using manipulative threats and promises. People rightly reject
aggressive domineering confrontation in both cases.
Hunter
invites Christians to “faithful participation” in the larger society, working
alongside people of other faiths and people of no faith, for the common good.
His point is that “faithful participation” is socially and politically
effective. My experience is that when we engage the world through “faithful
participation,” people learn that we are not bigots and some of them even want
to join us. Those who continue to despise us will at least be harder pressed to
despise us for the wrong reasons.
In sum, the
negative impression so many secular people have of Christians is, as Scott
says, a case of our reaping the whirlwind. If we want people to believe we
stand for something good, decent, kind, and compassionate, then it is incumbent
on us, not just as individuals, but as churches, to act boldly in the larger
society.
III.
UNPERSUASIVE, BORING, AND BANAL BELIEFS
Scott also
argued that our belief system isn’t persuasive to people who have half a mind
and half a heart. In my opinion, Scott is right, but I want to take this more
expansive format to flesh out the problem more than he could in a FB comment.
A.
The
Petty Tyrant Versus The Fellow Sufferer
Many clergy
today are more at home with a simplified psychology than they are with a mature
theology. The result is that some of us don’t talk about God much and those who
do don’t speak of God very well. Even in mainline churches, I hear God talk
that betrays a very problematic image of God. In fact, some mainline Christians
don’t like to talk about God because the only God they know is the Petty
Tyrant.
The Petty
Tyrant God is the one who sends all sorts of blessings and curses into our
lives to reward, punish, teach, test, or otherwise manipulate us into doing
what pleases him. Or he (and it is a “he”) pulls the strings of the universe to
accomplish a secret plan in which all will work out – but he doesn’t plan to
let us in on it.
No one with
half a heart is going to love that kind of God – fear maybe; cow tow before,
maybe – but love, no way. So 20th Century theologians gave us
another God – the helpless God who really can’t do anything about this mess the
world is in, but this God is infinitely empathetic – the Fellow Sufferer Who
Cares.
Misery
loves company. The folks with half a heart can like this God well enough, but
the folks with half a brain will know such a God is not much help in a crisis.
The Fellow Sufferer is an Innocent Bystander – but is that what we mean by God.
It’s a far cry from “Immortal, invisible, God only wise, in light in accessible
hid from our eyes” or “King of Gory, King of Peace.”
Short
simple point: We aren’t offering the world a compelling portrait of God. Our
better theologians actually are offering a profound, beautiful, intellectually
credible, compelling portrait of God. Unfortunately, they don’t speak the
language of the people in the pews or even a lot of the people in the pulpits.
It isn’t that people aren’t smart enough. People are plenty smart. The problem
is that academic theologians are talking to each other in the language of
academic theology. That’s what they are supposed to do. But we are not training
clergy to translate the deep wisdom of our faith into English – not dumb it
down – people are smart – translate deep truths into common language. Take the
trouble to explain it.
This is
do-able. Commercial break for a moment of shameless self-promotion: My
forthcoming book God Of Our Silent Tears may be challenging at times, but it is
in English. It does take the God images of Rahner, Hart, Sobrino, Hick, Adams,
et al and make them accessible to bright people who want to think about what
they believe. I am not alone. Shirley Guthrie’s Christian Theology does a good
job of it as well. If clergy make the effort, we can present a God who will be
more than acceptable to people with half a brain and half a heart. We can
present a God who will enrich people’s lives beyond the reach of imagination.
B.
Triumph
of the Therapeutic
Know that I
write this as one who has spent more time on the metaphoric couch than most and
do not regret it. I respect therapy. Three members of the next generation of my
family are therapists. I have been to Esalen, Omega, the Gestalt Institute,
etc. etc. etc. I do psychosynthesis work almost daily.
But therapy
and religion, while touching each other and sometimes overlapping each other,
are not the same thing. Philip Reif wrote 40 years ago about the displacement
of religion, which offers a large frame of reference for life, with the
therapeutic model focused on the individual self. Eventually we came, as Reif
predicted, to a society in which the most influential spiritual leader was a
talk show host. http://ncronline.org/blogs/grace-margins/oprah-and-triumph-therapeutic
Since
mainline Christianity abandoned the larger society, I am glad someone as
beneficent as Oprah stepped in to take our place. But the cultural shift in
Western religion has been the replacement of Christianity with a creed that is
currently known as Moral Therapeutic Deism. This short article truly is worth a
read. http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2009/aprilweb-only/116-11.0.html.
Again in
the absence of a healthy robust Christian presence in the world, MTD is not
that bad. As a trend of the rock of intellectual culture rolling steadily
downhill from Kant to Kierkegaard to Camus to – God help us – John Lennon, it
was inevitable. In the absence of authentic witness from Christianity and other
world religions, this is what we got. God became the “cosmic butler and on call
therapist.” We learned to be nice, get help as needed, and hope to go to heaven
when we die. As secularism goes, it could be a lot worse. But the Christianity
Today version of MTD[i]
is sometimes not so different from what mainline churches, mega-churches, and
even contemporary evangelical churches offer as an alternative to the angry
judgmental religion that rightly offends moral secularists. Such an innocuous worldview
is a far cry from the Christian faith people have gone to the stake to defend.
Another
social media discussion I am following has leading Christians saying of MTD,
“what’s wrong with it?” Again, I say, “not much” for secularists. For the
intentionally “spiritual but not religious,” it’s fine. But for the Church: As
practiced by some, it is the brand of religion Marx called the “opiate of the
masses” helping people adjust to the world instead of changing it. MTD can
easily reinforce the ego; indeed make ego-goals the be all and end all of life,
instead of the fundamental problem with life as it has been held to be by the
great religious teachers from Buddha to Jesus to Mohammed. For the Church, it
is offering a cut rate watered down version of what psychotherapy can do
considerably better than we can.
Finally, if
Christians are right that Creation and our spiritual journey through it are wonderful
and mysterious gifts, we need a word view larger than the version of MTD that
Christianity Today describes. If St. Augustine is right that human beings have
an innate sense of the vast mystery, that we are wired for God (and there is
neurological evidence that we are wired for God), that “our hearts are restless
until they rest in Thee,” then MTD is ultimately not satisfying.
I offer no
defense for aggressive domineering Christianity. I am against it. I offer no
defense for the inward looking disengaged from the world support group
churchianity of the modern mainline denominations – except that I do deny that
they are hate-mongers or bigots. For those who are outside the Church, if MTD
offers them some modicum of grace and comfort, then I am glad for it.
But if the
Church is to be the Body of Christ, we need meatier stuff. We need faith and
spiritual disciplines that equip us to engage in the world-changing Kingdom Mission.
We need spiritual resources for an adventure in which we will have to contend
against powers and principalities – both spiritual and temporal that repress
the children of God and make us less than we were created to be.
If we are
not a crucible of transformation in which lives are set on fire for a mission
that invests this life with deep meaning and offers hope for joy in eternity,
then we are boring. Domineering aggressive Christianity is at least
interesting, albeit in a bad way. If we are boring, then we will understandably
be either ignored entirely or tarred with the same brush as the bigots.
IV.
CONCLUSION
The stock
of the gospel in our culture is low. We can blame the culture for that, and we
will be partly right. The technological juggernaut of consumerist culture is
not as God would want it to be. If this were the Kingdom, if this world were
already as God wants it, we would not be praying, “Your Kingdom come.”
But our mission
is not to blame the culture. It is not to condemn, harangue, or berate the
culture. Our mission is to faithfully participate in the culture. That will not
be easy. But as Chesterton said, “The Christian ideal has not been tried and
found wanting. It has been found difficult, and left untried.” I hope we try it
and see if it changes Rollie Williams’ opinion of us.
[i] From following
social media conversations, I know that some people like to embrace the label
of MTD but actually adhere to a larger worldview than the definition that arose
from a survey of adolescent beliefs.